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você é uma fraude?

por   /  22/02/2008  /  15:42

 

sabe aquela sensação secreta de que você é uma fraude? de que na realidade você é pior e menos competente do que os outros pensam? pois é. parece que é um negócio meio que generalizado. ninguém – ninguém mesmo (e porque eu seria diferente?) – lida bem com a perspectiva de fracasso.

nine escreveu isso aí, se referindo a um artigo muito bom do herald tribune:

Stare into a mirror long enough and it’s hard not to wonder whether that’s a mask staring back, and if so, who’s really behind it.

A similar self-doubt can cloud a public identity as well, especially for anyone who has just stepped into a new role. College graduate. New mother. Medical doctor. Even, for that matter, presidential nominee.

Presidents and parents, after all, are expected to make crucial decisions on a dime. Doctors are being asked to save lives, and graduate students to know how Aristotle’s conception of virtue differed from Aquinas’s conception of — uh-oh.

Who’s kidding whom?

Social psychologists have studied what they call the impostor phenomenon since at least the 1970s, when a pair of therapists at Georgia State University used the phrase to describe the internal experience of a group of high-achieving women who had a secret sense they were not as capable as others thought. Since then researchers have documented such fears in adults of all ages, as well as adolescents.

Their findings have veered well away from the original conception of impostorism as a reflection of an anxious personality or a cultural stereotype. Feelings of phoniness appear to alter people’s goals in unexpected ways and may also protect them against subconscious self-delusions.

continuem a leitura aqui.

o desenho eu peguei do merdanchik

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likely

por   /  21/02/2008  /  21:52

 

já ouvirem lykke li? é mais uma cantora da suécia. e é boa pra um fim de tarde _se as cortinas não estivessem fechadas, eu completaria com um “chuvoso”; mas como é são paulo, a chance é de 97%, né? então. é doce a voz dela, meio infantil. e a letra do hit, “little bit”, é fofa.

a little bit, a little bit
a little bit in love with you
but only if you’re
a little but, a little bit, a little bit
in lo-lo-lo-lo-love with me
oh

ooo-ooo…

and for you i keep my legs apart
and forget about my tainted heart
and i will never ever be the first
to say it
but still I,
yes you know i..i..i..
i would do it,
push a button
pull a trigger,
climb a mountain
jump off a cliff,
‘cause you know baby
i love you love you a little bit
i would do it, i would say it
i would mean it, we could do it
it was you and i and if only i

ouçam, em versão um pandeiro, um violão, nas ruas:

e aqui a versão oficial: